About Me

Samoan by birth, American by choice.  Proud to be both!

Born in Samoa within sight, sound and smell of the Pacific Ocean but I can’t swim to save my life and  I really don’t care for the beach all that much.  However, I love sea food and will eat just about every edible thing from the ocean.

When I was a young girl in Samoa, I devoured every Nancy Drew, Hardy Boys and Famous Five book in our tiny school library and dreamt of one day becoming a real live Nancy Drew.  Obviously that didn’t pan out but I am pretty good at figuring out who did it halfway through the movie.

Educated in Samoa, New Zealand and the United States, became a teacher like my parents. Unlike my parents who retired as educators, I soon found out that dealing with other people’s teenagers wasn’t my thing so I enrolled in graduate school.  Now I’m happy to say that I don’t dread going to work most days.

I live in the States with hubby and our mostly lovable sons at the foot of a mountain near a military base in a state that is actually a desert.  We’re a military family. I actually don’t mind military life as after 2 or 3 years I’m ready for new faces and places but the boys don’t like it so much.  Ok, they don’t like it at all.

I started this blog in 2007.  That was the year I home-schooled our boys and needed something to do while they did whatever I made them do. And, as a former English teacher, I had dreams of writing the great Samoan novel but someone has already beat me to that. A couple of years and two military moves later my blog became my poor abandoned blog.  Resurrected it in 2011, changed the name from Daughters of Samoa to A Samoan Woman and figured that the chances of a nutcase actually stalking me was pretty slim so I finally posted a real profile picture.

While not a typical mommy blog, I do write about life experiences from the perspective of a Samoan woman who embraces the conveniences and privileges of a modern woman yet still cherishes her heritage, the fa’a Samoa - the Samoan way of life.   I plan for 2 posts a week but you know what they say about best laid plans and all…Ia Manuia!

Recent Posts

From This Day Forward

Once Upon A Time

On an island far away a girl who thought she had life all planned out met this handsome Samoan guy and the rest as they say is history

We Promised

You promised that you’ll still love me even when there’s a lot more of me to love and I promised that you’ll still be the love of my life even when your snoring keeps me up at nights

To Have and To Hold

We moved in seemingly different circles but thankfully fate brought us together and I will have and hold you until forever and beyond my love

In Sickness and in Health

You’re the one that I reach for when I’m hurting and the one that I want to laugh with when everything is going right

For Richer, For Poorer

Remember when we had to walk to the closest Safeway to buy groceries and we had one piece of furniture to our name, what an adventure its been my love

In Good Times and Bad

We’ve had our share of those, you’ve annoyed the heck out of me and I’ve made you mad as heck, you’ve put up with my crap and I’ve learned to look past yours

To Love and to Cherish

You are and always will be my one true love, wherever you are is home because that is where my heart will be

Till Death Do Us Part

That’s not going to happen because I will stalk you from the grave if I die before you so this part doesn’t apply to us   

Happy 24th Anniversary my love! Here’s to another 24 years of loving you, fighting with you, being loved by you, annoying you, being annoyed by you, cheering the boys on with you, celebrating life’s little victories with you, sharing the thorns of life with you and just simply being the other half of you. I look forward to growing old with you.  You and me facing whatever together babe, we got this!

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